My spouse or boyfriend is acting like a jerk, he says he will leave me if I get breast implants! What can I do?
This is pretty common as the men in our lives can become threatened and intimidated by our desire for larger breasts. They may become jealous (obviously in advance) that other men may look at you. They may begin to suspect that you are wanting other men to look at you or that you will leave them for another person. Things like this are commonly argued about before a breast augmentation surgery. You may even receive threats of "I will leave you if you get breast implants", "I will not take care of you if you get breast implants," "You are going to look like a freak (or be fake) if you get breast implants," etc.
Rest assured, the majority, and I mean 99%, of the men absolutely adore their significant other's new breasts and cannot wait to see, touch, etc. Just be aware that if you show them soon after surgery when they look their most unpleasant that they may slip up with a negative comment or two. Don't take it to heart, in fact have your man
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